Is it normal to be attracted to both sexes, but only approve one?

My friends and I have been having a conversation on gay and bi people. We were wondering- if your a guy, is it normal to be attracted to guys physically and emotionally but not mentally (To have an attraction to their bodies and to want to kiss them etc. but not to actually have a relationship with guys.) Like is it okay to be attracted to guys completely, but just not approving of dating them. and to add to that, what if your attracted to the beauty of women and the thought of being with them, but just not sexually attracted. Answers are greatly appreciated.

I’m kind of like that because most of the time I wished I was totally gay, but I can’t help it.

5 Responses to “Is it normal to be attracted to both sexes, but only approve one?”

  1. wait, isn’t that every gay man in america?
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  2. The Plastic Flamingo on November 8th, 2009 at 3:07 pm

    Personally I tihnk emotionally and mentally are the same thing, but yes, I think it is very possible. I am strongly attracted to guys (on all levels) but and usually only emotionally attracted to girls. There are of course some exceptions… http://www.rap-wallpapers.com/data/media/2/beyonce_wallpapers_21.jpg :)
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  3. It’s a good question but it leaves us wondering about whether one could be happy in either type of relationship. We think not
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  4. I’m kind of like that because most of the time I wished I was totally gay, but I can’t help it.
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  5. If there is a guy who is strong, cool, smart and funny. There is nothing wrong with having a secret crush in them (Don’t lie every man in America has had some sort of guy crush). So if it’s only a certain guy or type of guy, most people won’t mind. But if you like all guys and are sexually attracted to women, then your a bisexual. Not in the actually term but mentally you want to be with both and there is a little wrong with that
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